“Dream Book” series – post 2
This is the second entry in the “Dream Book” series of posts – the first can be read here. “Making your dreams your reality” is a long blog post so I’ll post it over a couple of days. Don’t forget to check out the other part of it tomorrow as well.
Making your dreams your reality – part 1
So you’ve made a start on creating your Dream Book, what then? How do you get your dream out of the book into your reality? There’s probably lots of different ways of achieving this – the following are some guidelines that I’ve used but I’m sure you’ll think of other things too once you start to think about it.
Not every point listed below will apply to every dream but many of them will. Just use the ones that apply to your dream and put the others aside for another dream. Also don’t stop dreaming just because you start to work on fulfilling a dream. Dream big dreams everyday – use your imagination – it’s your dream centre. Ask yourself “what if?”
Make your dream book – see my previous blog entry “get that dream outta your head” for the details on how to make a Dream Book.
Write The Vision – Now you’re underway in creating your Dream Book take some time to write out the vision you have. What is it you want to achieve, what’s your dream? There’s a verse in the Bible that talks about the purpose for writing down vision. It says, “Write down the vision and make it plain…that those who read it may run (with it)”
Habbakuk 2:2
Writing it down gives it substance and brings it out of the abstract thought world into your current reality. It sets things in motion, now you can see it before you and can begin to take other steps toward achieving it. Now you can begin to run with it.
Writing it down will help you give words to exactly what you want to achieve. Be specific about it – “I want to travel overseas” or “I want to own my own business” are too nebulous, they could mean anything. Where do you want to travel? What do you want to see, to experience? What type of business do you want, what sort of people are you serving/selling to? You may end up with a statement that looks like this “ I want to travel from Italy to China following the old Spice Road that Marco Polo travelled, seeing Europe and the Orient without all the tourist trappings” or “I dream of owning my own business providing quality and quirky handcrafted goods that people would be proud to own, display and use in their homes and their daily life.”
Write down where you are doing your dream i.e. town, suburb, who you are doing your dream with.
Write an affirmation – write your statement again – this time, write it as if you are actually living it now. This statement will become an affirmation you can speak over yourself and dream to. e.g. “I own and run a successful business providing quality and quirky handcrafted goods that people are proud to own, display and use in their homes and their daily life.” Speak positive affirmations over yourself often regarding your dream.
Believe in it Your passion and belief are what will make your dream your reality. Let it build within you – looking through your Dream Book daily will help this along. Determine to make your dreams your reality.
Visualize yourself doing it. Keep that dream before your vision internally as well as externally. Put pictures on the fridge, on a mirror. Begin to populate your vision, see yourself doing it.
Take a first step –Research is a great first step, read books on your dream, Google it and talk to others who have done what you want to do.
Ask yourself – What is needed to make my dream happen? What finances are involved? How can you get that finance? Can you work extra hours or maybe sell something? Do you need to get some training? Does your dream involve other people; in what way? Do you need a formal agreement or contract sorted out?
Ask yourself – What within me needs to change in order for me to achieve my dream? What habits, what character traits? List your positive points and your negative ones – be honest with yourself; own what you’re good at and change what needs to be changed. Get help if you need to do so in order to make lasting changes. Are you committed to achieving this dream no matter what obstacles happen (as they will)?
Well, that’s some great first steps that will get you started on seeing your dream become your reality. I’ll post the second part of this post tomorrow and that will look at some more tips for making your dream a reality as well as some of the things that can stop our dreams becoming our reality.